21 Bachelorette Destinations with the Perfect Amount of Party for Every Bridal Party

VEGAS IS THE CLASSIC BACHELORETTE DESTINATION

This is perhaps the bachelorette capital of the world - the city was all but built for this. Being America's playground, the city truly does have everything a bachelorette party is looking for - easy access, hotel options galore, every form of entertainment you can imagine, spots to see and be seen, nearly guaranteed sunshine - all condensed onto the Las Vegas Strip.

THE VARIETY ALLOWS YOU TO TAILOR YOUR TRIP AND KEEP EVERYONE ENTERTAINED

VEGAS CAN BE DECEPTIVELY EXPENSIVE

Sure, you might get a hotel promo offering a ridiculously low-priced room, if you're lucky. But, some nights, hotels can have crazy prices and there aren't great Airbnb options. Then, think about all of the other expenses that go into having a fun time. Bottle service comes with a side of sticker shock. Some show tickets can be quite expensive. Start adding in dinners, drinks, gambling, etc. and you can quickly find yourself out of money. Make sure you and your group are comfortable with the budget so you don’t find yourselves holding back when you shouldn’t. Also, keep in mind any special events going on in the city that might drive prices up.

KEEP THE SANITY OF YOUR GROUP IN MIND WHEN PLANNING

SPEND A DAY POOLSIDE

There's plenty to do in Vegas before the sun goes down. Whether you need to recover from a hangover or are looking to cause one, there's a pool for you. Either way, Vegas pools are known for being over the top. For a bachelorette, I recommend splurging on a cabana. If you're at a day club, it'll give you an escape from the masses, and if you're at a more laid-back pool, you'll be pampered all day with food and beverage service. You'll have a space for your whole group to spend the day together, and depending where you book, some pretty awesome amenities like the private plunge pool we got at the Venetian.

SEE A SHOW

EXPLORE THE STRIP

MIAMI IS A PARTY TOWN

I might be opening myself up for argument here, but Miami might be more of a party town than Vegas in my mind. It's hard to put my finger on, but I think it's because it's part of the culture for the locals here just as much as it is for the tourists. Needless to say, if your group is looking for a night (or day) out, you won't have to look hard.

IT'S SUNNY YEAR ROUND, AND THE BEACH IS JUST STEPS AWAY

GOING OUT IS GEARED MORE TOWARDS CLUBS

If your bride is more into laid-back bars where you can have a great conversation, your options might be a little thin, and there are plenty of other destinations that might be a better match. But, if your bride is a party animal looking to let loose at a notorious club, Miami is your match.

MIAMI CAN GET INCREDIBLY BUSY, DRIVING PRICES UP AND MAKING RESERVATIONS HARD TO COME BY

GET A CABANA BY THE POOL

The pool scene in Miami is wild. You don't even have to be at a "club" pool to feel like you are. DJs, dancing, and crowds of scantily clad "swimmers" are the norm, and it can be great to have a place for your group to camp out, not to mention have your drinks delivered. A cabana should be on every bachelorette's wish list.

GO DANCING

GET OUT ON THE WATER WITH A BOAT DAY

COMPARED TO SOME OTHER DESTINATIONS NEW ORLEANS IS MORE AFFORDABLE

The first time I went to New Orleans and picked up a bar tab, I thought there had been a mistake. Turns out drinks were half the price of drinks in Nashville. Even the Southern hospitality comes with a reasonable price tag. There are some wonderful hotels and restaurants that won't break the bank, and the city is well-suited for a shared Airbnb without missing out on the perks of a hotel.

NEW ORLEANS IS AN EXPERIENCE UNLIKE ANYWHERE ELSE

DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE IMPACT OF MARDI GRAS

In most cities, Mardi Gras is an afterthought or maybe a single day celebration. In New Orleans, it's transformative for the city, and it goes on for weeks. I'm not saying you should rule Mardi Gras season out for your bachelorette - it might add to the fun. But keep in mind, it might also add to the cost and complexity of your trip. Be prepared for parade routes to shut down the city, stagnated transportation, wall to wall people on Bourbon Street, and just generally things you never thought you'd see in public.

BE SMART AS YOU LET THE GOOD TIMES ROLL

DRINK ALL THE ICONIC NEW ORLEANS COCKTAILS

It's your bachelorette, so you have to include the Bourbon Street classics like hurricanes (from Pat O'Brien's), hand grenades (from Tropical Isle), or any other over-sized or over-proofed cocktails the bars can dream up. You should also start the evening with some of NOLA's classier creations like the Sazerac, which was first mixed by Antoine Peychaud on Royal Street, or the Pimm's Cup, an old English drink given a New Orleans twist at the Napoleon House. Check out this list for even more classics to sample while you're here.

INDULGE IN THE CITY'S DINING SCENE

EXPERIENCE THE UNIQUELY NEW ORLEANS CULTURE

NASHVILLE IS THE PERFECT BALACE OF MODERN SOUTHERN CHARM

You're in the South, so the people will be nicer, life will be slower, and the food will be better. Prepare yourself to eat your way through a weekend. But, don't think that Nashville is some backwoods town. It's one of the fastest growing cities in the country with lots of young professionals and artists from all over. You can even find favorites from the coasts like Pastis (coming soon) and Jean-Georges here, but make sure to try the local fare, like hot chicken (try Hattie B's or Prince's) and BBQ.

HONKY TONKS ARE FILLED WITH LIVE MUSIC (BEYOND COUNTRY) THAT BEGS YOU TO SING ALONG - OR EVEN JOIN IN KARAOKE!

NIGHTLIFE WILL CENTER MORE AROUND BARS THAN CLUBS

Don't get me wrong, the bars in Nashville are incredibly fun and more lively than most, but true nightclubs are less common. For some this is a huge selling point, for others the lack of clubs might be a letdown. Think about how your group likes to spend their nights out.

YOU WILL NOT BE THE ONLY BACHELORETTE CREW IN TOWN

LISTEN TO LIVE MUSIC (ON BROADWAY AND BEYOND)

This isn't hard to achieve because any honky tonk you walk into on Broadway or in Midtown will have someone (likely incredible) playing. But, consider going to a place like the Grand Ole Opry, the Ryman, Station Inn, or the Bluebird Café, which are all but sacred spaces in the country music world and offer a purer listening experience. Note: getting into the Bluebird is incredibly difficult and requires a dose of luck and flexibility, so you might want to bank elsewhere for your bachelorette.

MIX UP HOW YOU'RE DRINKING

CHECK OUT THE COUNTRY MUSIC HALL OF FAME

ALL THE FUN OF A COLLEGE TOWN WITH "GROWN-UP" OPTIONS IF YOU WANT THEM

It's a university town, and Texas students and alumni know how to have a good time, especially after a Longhorn win. If you want to see for yourself and re-live your college glory days, head to "Dirty" Sixth. That said, Austin is also the state capitol and a booming tech hub, so there are endless options for great restaurants and places for "grown-ups" to go out, where you can have just as much fun as the college kids without being surrounded by them.

YOU CAN PARTY TO YOUR HEART'S CONTENT, BUT THAT'S NOT ALL THERE IS TO AUSTIN

GOING OUT IN AUSTIN IS MORE CENTERED AROUND BARS THAN CLUBS

There's plenty of variety here from speakeasies to college bars to rooftop terraces to vibrant spots to dance the night away, but the focus is not on nightclubs. If your bride has her heart set on Vegas style bottle service, Austin might not be the best pick. That said, I don't think I've ever been out with anyone in Austin who hasn’t had a good time.

IF YOU HAVE YOUR HEART SET ON A LAKE HOUSE, BE REALISTIC ABOUT HOW MUCH YOU'LL MAKE IT INTO THE CITY

EXPLORE AUSTIN'S NATURAL BEAUTY

Recover from a late night with a dose of the great outdoors. Hike along the Barton Creek Greenbelt's winding trails, waterfalls, and naturally formed swimming holes; paddleboard or kayak in front of the city skyline on Lady Bird Lake; or dive into Barton Springs, a spring-fed swimming pool at Zilker Park.

HOP AROUND TO MULTIPLE BAR AREAS

HEAD TO PARTY COVE ON LAKE TRAVIS

PART PARTY, PART VACATION, CABO IS A GREAT BALANCE

Cabo is a top-notch bachelorette destination, but it's also one of the most trendy and popular beach destinations beyond brides. Warm weather, sunny skies, fabulous food, and countless opportunities to park yourself poolside will help your bachelorette feel like a real weekend getaway for your girls.

CABO HAS JUST ABOUT EVERY AMENITY AND ACTIVITY YOU COULD IMAGINE

CHOOSE YOUR HOTEL WITH YOUR GROUP'S INTERESTS IN MIND

Where you stay is going to have a big impact on your trip, and there are lots and lots of options. ME Cabo and the Vidanta Resort are tailor-made for partiers thanks to their onsite clubs (UPDATE: both Blue Marlin Ibiza Los Cabos and Omnia Dayclub have recently closed. It's currently unclear what's happening with those spaces.) For beachgoers who want to go beyond shin-deep, make sure to pick a hotel with a swimmable beach. Strong currents make this less common than you would think. Finally, consider what part of town you want to be in. San Jose del Cabo and Cabo San Lucas have very different vibes, and hotels and restaurants will be pretty spread out between the two. No matter what, arrange for taxis or drivers because you'll likely be traveling a decent way each night to dinner and bars off-property. For a full guide on where to stay in Cabo, click here!

NIGHTLIFE IS LIVELY, BUT IT CAN HAVE A SPRING BREAK TYPE VIBE

SET SAIL ON A CATAMARAN

Depending where you stay, you might be able to see El Arco from your hotel, but it's practically a Cabo rite of passage to hop on a catamaran to see it up close. As you sail you might also catch the migrating humpback whales or a sunset, and you'll have a chance to partake in some water activities like snorkeling or paddleboarding.

GET THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS WITH A VILLA-STYLE ROOM

DRINK A HEALTHY DOSE OF TEQUILA

GET THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS, BY DAY AND BY NIGHT

If you're looking to relax, enjoy a luxe treatment at the spa or the sound of the ocean waves from your seaside cabana. If you're looking to turn things up a notch, head to a sexy Cirque du Soleil show at the Vidanta resort or party until the early hours at a Mandala Group club, Coco Bongo, or Papaya Playa Project's beach rager (which along with Vidanta is also a great option for bachelorette groups to stay). For something in the middle, send yourself around the lazy river or park yourself at the swim-up bar and sip tropical cocktails until it's time to catch your flight back home.

NATURAL BEAUTY AND ANCIENT CULTURE ARE JUST A SHORT FLIGHT AWAY

CHOOSE YOUR RESORT WISELY BASED ON YOUR GROUPS'S WANTS AND NEEDS

The Riviera is a big place, comprising Tulum, Playa del Carmen, Akumal, Maroma, Cozumel, and you could also consider Cancun. Not only does each of these towns has a distinct vibe (e.g., Tulum is known for being Boho-chic, while Cancun is notorious for spring breakers), but each of the resorts will have its own vibe. Your group might not have as much fun if you pick a resort that is mostly geared towards families or couples on a romantic getaway.

BE SMART ABOUT LEAVING THE RESORT

TAKE FULL ADVANTAGE OF THE TURQUOISE WATERS

Of course, the sea is beautiful to look at, but make the most of it and dive in. You don't have to travel to Australia for a spectacular coral reef; the Mesoamerican Barrier Reef is the second largest reef system in the world, and well worth a day of snorkeling or diving. Alternatively, Akumal, which means "land of the turtles" in the Mayan language, is a famous spot to snorkel with its resident sea turtles.

STEP BACK IN TIME TO EXPLORE ANCIENT MAYAN HISTORY

RECOVER FROM A HANGOVER WITH A TRIP TO THE SPA

NEW YORK CITY IS ONE OF THE MOST METROPOLITAN CITIES IN THE WORLD

There are literally endless options in this city, and they are always changing, which means there is always something trendy and new to try out. The city blends vibrance, edginess, and a little bit of bougie into the perfect bachelorette party cocktail.

THERE'S SO MUCH TO DO BEYOND BARS AND RESTAURANTS

THE CITY IS GOING TO BE EXPENSIVE

It all starts with hotel prices, which are some of the most expensive in the country. In other places, you might be able to cut down costs by looking at house rentals or splitting rooms across multiple people, but rental regulations and the small size of NYC hotel rooms makes that a challenge. The costs will not stop there, everything is more expensive in the city from drinks to meals to activities. Keep in mind the budget of your group so that everyone has a good time.

COORDINATING A GROUP WILL BE HARD

DINE

Eat your heart out. New York is home to some of the best fine dining institutions in the world. It's also home to hole in the walls, dirty water dogs, and all you can eat sushi joints. For a particularly bachelorette-style dining experience head to a restaurant known for a lively late night like STK's rooftop, the Catch roof, Dirty French, or Buddakhan. When it comes time for brunch, there are just as many options - since Bagatelle is no longer an option, Beauty & Essex is a great pick.

DRINK

GET A DOSE OF CULTURE

ENJOY RELAXATION, FUN ACTIVITIES, FINE DINING, AND NIGHTLIFE ALL WITHOUT LEAVING THE RESORT

The Bahamas has two mega resorts (Atlantis and Bahamar) that feel like someone transported a Vegas hotel to the islands. Each has multiple hotel properties (read: multiple budget options), a casino, pools, waterparks, activities, and a whole list of bars and restaurants. The beauty of this is, you don't have to think too hard about your itinerary or planning the logistics for staying with a big group.

SUNSHINE AND SANDY BEACHES ARE JUST A SHORT FLIGHT AWAY

NIGHTLIFE IS AVAILABLE WITHOUT LEAVING THE PROPERTY, BUT FOR MORE VARIETY YOU'LL HAVE TO VENTURE OUT

If you're at Atlantis or Bahamar, you'll have a casino, bars, lounges, even a Vegas-style club at your disposal. But, given it's a resort, sometimes things can be slower than others. If you really want to let your hair down, spring break style, you might have to venture into Nassau. It's not a deal breaker, but you might have to leave the convenience of your resort bubble.

THE BAHAMAS CAN BE INCREDIBLY POPULAR FOR SPRING BREAK

SPLASH AROUND AT THE WATERPARK

Atlantis has an epic waterpark that's fun for all ages. Seriously, I followed an ex-NFL star down one of the slides and have never heard such a high-pitched scream in my life! Try all the slides or pick up a tube and go round and round the lazy river with your girls. If you're hungover there's a tranquil version, but the more exciting option has waves and waterfalls to kickstart lots of laughs.

PARK YOURSELF BY THE POOL AND TRY AS MANY TROPICAL COCKTAILS AS YOU CAN

GET A TASTE OF VEGAS AT THE CASINO AND THE CLUB

ST. BARTH IS FASHIONABLY EXCLUSIVE

The island is known to be an enclave for celebrities. Some have even chosen this spot for their own bachelorette parties. This exclusivity means the island isn't overrun by mega resorts like other beach locales. Instead, St. Barth offers smaller, boutique-style (but still amenity rich) hotels and private villas.

THE SCENERY IS LIKE SOMETHING OUT OF A POSTCARD

UNLESS YOU'RE ABLE TO FLY PRIVATE, GETTING THERE CAN EAT UP PRECIOUS TIME

The fact is, you are going to have to connect at least once. Most likely it will be more than once. Depending where you are coming from and how tight your schedule is, this might steal valuable time from actually enjoying your bachelorette weekend. Factor this in when choosing a destination or planning your itinerary.

THE ISLAND IS NOT EASY ON THE WALLET

HIT THE BEACH - OR SEVERAL

St. Barth's is known for its beaches and swimmable, calm waters. You'll have a variety of options to choose from whether you want pristine sand, privacy, or lots of seashells. If you want to venture out a little farther with a snorkel and some fins, you'll be delighted by the coral reefs.

PARTY DAY AND NIGHT

SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR BRIDAL PARTY

THE DESERT SUN IS LITERALLY ALWAYS SHINING

This sets the stage for fun but laid-back daytime activities. The pool will be calling your name, and you can easily spend your day atop a wedding-themed floatie. If you're looking for something more active, the desert and all its beauty is there for you to explore.

PALM SPRINGS HAS A SUBSTANTIAL GAY COMMUNITY, WHICH MEANS ITS NATURALLY LGBTQ-FRIENDLY

GETTING THERE CAN TAKE SOME TIME, ESPECIALLY WITH TRAFFIC

Traffic from LA to Palm Springs can be, shall we say, painful. Construction & traffic can slow things to a crawl that can easily take several hours. There are flights into Palm Springs, but availability and prices may limit this as an option. Keep the travel time in mind when planning for your group.

TEMPERATURES IN THE SUMMER CAN BE OPPRESSIVELY HOT

FEEL LIKE YOU'VE LANDED ON ANOTHER PLANET WITH A TRIP TO JOSHUA TREE

Contorted, spiky trees, strange rock formations, and beautiful blankets of stars make you feel like you have left the planet Earth. Honestly, it's easy to see why rock stars and artsy types have long flocked here and felt inspired to indulge in psychedelic drug use. I'm not endorsing that, but I am encouraging a trip to hike through the park that's hypnotic all on its own.

DAY-TRIP TO TEMECULA VALLEY FOR WINE TASTINGS

IF YOU'RE LOOKING TO SPLURGE, HEAD TO COACHELLA

YOU CAN HEAD TO THIS TROPICAL DESTINATION WITHOUT (TECHNICALLY) LEAVING THE US

Puerto Rico is a US territory, which means US citizens don't need a passport to visit! It's also just a few hours from most destinations in the Eastern half of the US, so you can be on the beach in no time.

DEPENDING ON WHAT YOU WANT, YOU CAN BALANCE BEACHES WITH ADVENTURE OR THE CHARM OF OLD SAN JUAN

YOU MIGHT BE JOINED BY SPRING BREAKERS

Warm weather, proximity to the continental US, and a drinking age of 18 make Puerto Rico a popular destination for spring break. Since spring break tends to coincide with summer brides' bachelorette dates, there's a chance you'll be sharing the island with college kids. This might add to the liveliness if you're looking to indulge in San Juan's nightlife, but it might dilute the maturity you're hoping for. Keep in mind your choice of resort will also have a big impact here.

IT MIGHT BE TOUGH IF YOU HAVE ANY WEST COASTERS IN YOUR GROUP

VENTURE INTO OLD SAN JUAN

There's plenty to do in the historic city by day or by night. The city is one of the oldest in the Caribbean and is filled with historic sites from a UNESCO World Heritage Fort to the burial site of Ponce de Leon to scenic streets and promenades. By night, there are plenty of places to dine, drink, and/or dance to your heart's content.

EXPLORE THE NATURAL SIDE OF PUERTO RICO

HEAD TO CASA BACARDI FOR A RUM TASTING

THERE ARE TONS OF GREAT RENTAL PROPERTIES TO PICK FOR YOUR BACHELORETTE HOME BASE

If spending time with your bridal party is a top priority, renting a house is a great choice. You'll have all your girls together with the perk of plenty of space, and likely a fantastic pool. Scottsdale has plenty of cushy options to choose from, and you likely won't break the bank once you split it across your group.

IF YOU DO DECIDE TO LEAVE THE HOUSE, OLD TOWN AND THE SURROUNDING DESERT HAVE SOMETHING FOR EVERYONE

THE SUMMER MONTHS GET ARIZONA-LEVEL HOT

When I say hot, I mean really hot. From June to September the average high is 100*F or more. If you're planning to spend your entire time in the pool, you might not mind. But if you're a fall bride (i.e., planning a summer bachelorette) looking to hike and explore, you'll want to plan around the heat with your date or destination choice.

DECIDE IF SPRING TRAINING SEASON IS FOR YOU

ADVENTURE YOUR WAY THROUGH THE DESERT SCENERY

A classic option is to climb Camelback Mountain. This doable hike is all but a rite of passage when you come to Scottsdale. You can also get out and go off-roading with a Jeep or ATV tour through the desert. If you want to venture a little farther, Sedona or the Grand Canyon are both day-trip distance away.

SOAK UP THE SUN AT THE POOL

BAR HOP THROUGH OLD TOWN

THE HAMPTONS ARE MANHATTAN'S SUMMER PLAYGROUND

The city makes a weekly exodus to the beach houses, if you can call them houses, of the Hamptons. It's certainly a place to see and be seen. It's lively and chic, which makes it a great spot for the stylish bride's prenuptial party.

THERE ARE PLENTY OF OPTIONS FOR PLACES TO GO OUT, NO MATTER YOUR GROUP'S STYLE

HEADING TO THE HAMPTONS IS NOT GOING TO BE A CHEAP DATE

With a good chunk of Manhattan headed here every weekend during the summer, you can bet rates will respond accordingly. You'll be painfully aware of Hamptons' popularity when planning, especially at the best spots. Hotels and houses will book up and be expensive. You'll also rack up charges for dining, drinking, and getting around. Plan ahead and make sure your bridal party is all on board with the budget before booking.

COMING HERE IS BEST FOR EAST COAST, PARTICULARLY NYC, BRIDAL PARTIES WITH SUMMER OR FALL WEDDING DATES

PICK A PART OF THE ISLAND AND PLAN YOUR ITINERARY AROUND THERE (OR AT LEAST HIRE A DRIVER)

It can be expensive and time consuming to move from place to place on the island. Lucky for you, some of the fan favorite spots to go out either transition from dinner to drinks and dancing, like Southampton Social Club, or they're located at hotels, like Ruschmeyer's or Gurney's, so you can just slink back to your room at the end of the night. If you really want to move around or want to visit one of the local wineries, hire a driver so you don't have to worry.

DANCE THE DAY (AND NIGHT) AWAY

IF YOU HAVE A LITTLE TOO MUCH FUN, TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE MANY WAYS TO RELAX AND RECHARGE

YOU CAN HIT THE BEACH OR POOL ALMOST ANY DAY OF THE YEAR

It's sunny more often than not, and rain is rare. Plus, the city has some truly goldilocks weather - not too hot, not too cold - average highs are in the 70s and 80s year-round. Combine the lovely weather with over 70 miles of coastline, and you're sure to find yourself enjoying the beach.

IT HAS EVERYTHING YOU WANT IN A BACHELORETTE DESTINATION WITHOUT THE CLICHE

SAN DIEGO IS NOT PARTICULARLY KNOWN FOR ITS AFFORDABILITY

California and specifically its cities are chart-topping for many reasons. Unfortunately, one of those charts pertains to costs; CA cities like San Diego tend to be some of the most expensive places in the US. Keep this in mind when you are planning for your group so that no one feels their stomach drop when they see the bill. If hotels don't make sense for your group, keep your eye out for rentals where you'll have both shared spaces and shared costs.

HEADING TO SAN DIEGO MAKES THE MOST SENSE FOR BRIDAL PARTIES ON THE WEST COAST

HOP FROM ONE ROOFTOP BAR TO THE NEXT

Whether for brunch, some afternoon lawn games, or a more clubby experience, San Diego has a host of rooftop bars to pick from. It makes sense - who wouldn’t want to hang out with refreshments and epic views of the beach and sunset? Plan to hop around to a few. You might also consider a cabana at a rooftop pool.

SET SAIL OR SURF OUT ON THE WATER

BE TOTAL TOURISTS AT THE WORLD-FAMOUS SAN DIEGO ZOO & ADJACENT BALBOA PARK

SKIING IS ALWAYS A GREAT GIRLS' GETAWAY - YOUR BACHELORETTE IS NO DIFFERENT

Maybe it's bunking up in a rustic cabin with all of your best friends, maybe it's coming in to enjoy a crackling fire and a warm cocoa after a day in the snow, maybe it's the perfect mix of getting active with high-quality R&R - whatever it is, ski trips always seem to be top of mind for a girls' trip. This still rings true for your bachelorette!

APRES SKI IS A FAN FAVORITE, BUT IT'S ALSO EASY TO STAY COMPLETELY SOBER WHILE SLOPESIDE

SKIING HAS THE UNIQUELY PREVALENT RISK OF GETTING HURT BEFORE THE BIG DAY

No one ever plans on getting hurt, but accidents happen, and before your big day they can be a big deal. Just think through the scenario where you blow out your knee. Are you okay missing out on dancing? Would you reschedule? Most people are going to be just fine, but some might feel more comfortable saving skiing for another time.

IF YOU ARE LOOKING TO PARTY, ALTITUDE CAN TAKE ITS TOLL

CONSIDER YOUR GROUP AND YOUR WEDDING DATE

START BY PICKING THE RIGHT RESORT

Make sure you are keeping your group in mind before you simply jet off to your favorite mountain. Unless your group is all experts, you might not collectively have a lot of fun at a resort geared towards experienced skiers like Jackson Hole. Somewhere with more mild options, like Breckenridge might be a better pick. Consider access - somewhere like Park City is easy to reach via a major airport and doesn't require long shuttle rides. Also consider après. There are many excellent resorts to choose from, but each has its own unique vibe. For example, Aspen offers a glamorous twist while Tahoe resorts have easy access to Reno's casinos. Do your homework before you head out to find the best match for your group - check out my skiing guides!

HIT THE SLOPES BY DAY AND THE HOT TUB BY NIGHT

CONSIDER PLANNING A NON-SKIING ACTIVITY

IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A CLASSY BACHELORETTE WITH A SOPHISTICATED FEEL

It's not like you can't get tipsy after several tastings, but Napa is not going to provide the stereotypical wild bachelorette experience. You'll be focused on bonding together and having a great few days away. You build memories more like you would on an grown-up vacation rather than the ones you lost on spring break back in the day.

NAPA IS TRULY ONE OF THE BEST FOOD AND WINE DESTINATIONS IN THE WORLD

NAPA CAN BE HARD TO ACCOMMODATE ALL BUDGETS & TIMELINES

Tastings aren't crazy expensive, but the destination generally skews towards the high end with regards to dining, drinking, and places to stay. Depending on where you want to stay, you might only have pricey hotels to choose from (vs. a big group house) because Napa County does not permit short-term rentals. Also consider that it's a couple hour drive from most Bay Area airports, and you'll likely need to rent at least one car. Plan around this by coordinating flights and cars.

NAPA IS NOT THE MOST BACHELORETTE-FRIENDLY DESTINATION

HIRE A DRIVER TO TAKE YOU AROUND TO AN ITINERARY OF TASTINGS

The bonus here - beyond not drinking and driving or getting lost - is your driver can help you plan which wineries will work best for your group and provide knowledge along the way. Try to work some diversity into your day because each winery experience can be quite different from the next. For example, we visited one of the best-known names in the Valley along with a small, family-run operation. Alternatively, take a trip on the antique wine train, which serves meals and makes stops at multiple famous wineries. If you're looking for a different perspective of the valley, hop on a hot air balloon for an aerial view.

PLAN FOR A HIGH-END DINNER AT LEAST ONE NIGHT

SCHEDULE A DAY OF PRENUPTIAL PAMPERING

THE SCENERY IS STUNNING AND HIKING ISN'T THE ONLY WAY TO SEE IT

The city is surrounded by gorgeous red rock formations from buttes to canyons. You can of course get out and hike, but Sedona offers so many ways to get out and explore the landscape. Try mountain biking, going off-roading in a jeep, taking a horseback ride, or seeing things from above in a hot air balloon or helicopter. Don’t sleep, literally, on the scenery after dark. Sedona is a designated Dark Sky community perfect for stargazing with the potential to see the Milky Way.

SEDONA IS KNOWN WORLD-WIDE AS A SPIRITUAL DESTINATION

SEDONA ISN'T A MAJOR HUB

Getting there will require a little more than a simple direct flight and an Uber. It’s not too bad; it’ll take about 2.5 hours from the Phoenix airport via car or shuttle, but make sure you are prepared for this and plan your itinerary accordingly.

SEDONA IS ONE OF THE MORE SEDATE LOCATIONS ON THIS LIST

RELAX AND RESET WITH A SPA DAY

If wedding stress hasn't pushed you to need a spa day, an overeager hike in the desert easily can. Make sure to plan for a day to pamper yourself and your bridal party. You're in one of the wellness capitals of the world - take advantage! Sign up for a hot stone massage, a desert salt exfoliation, a red rock mud wrap, an energy healing session, or all of the above!

BEAT THE HEAT AT THE POOL

EXPLORE INCREDIBLE NATURAL WONDERS

GOING TO ORLANDO IS A UNIQUE TWIST ON A BACHELORETTE

It's definitely not what usually comes to mind, but it's literally a city built on fun. What more could a bachelorette party want? If you're looking for something a little more G-rated than your usual bachelorette party or simply want to do something different, Orlando should be on your shortlist.

THERE ARE ENDLESS OPTIONS FOR THINGS TO DO HERE

ORLANDO ISN'T JUST FOR KIDS, BUT THERE DEFINITELY WILL BE KIDS

You'll have to mind your behavior somewhat (Girls Gone Wild isn't going to fly). You might get stuck next to a toddler throwing an absolute tantrum about not getting to ride the teacups. And, because the parks are designed with families in mind, some only allow alcohol at table service restaurants. Make sure your group is okay with this, and plan accordingly for when you want to have a more "grown-up" experience.

THE PARKS CAN BE SHOCKINGLY EXPENSIVE

DRINK AROUND THE WORLD AT EPCOT

EPCOT is a bachelorette party must. The World Showcase is made up of 11 different country "pavilions" surrounding a lagoon. The pavilions feature local architecture, rides, souvenirs, dining, and perhaps most importantly signature drinks. Try to make your way around the full loop with stops at Mexico, Norway, China, Germany, Italy, USA, Japan, Morocco, France, the UK, and Canada.

EXPERIENCE THE MAGIC

TAKE SOME TIME TO RELAX

THE DINING SCENE IS INCREDIBLE

Not only is Charleston in the South, which is already known for rich cuisine drawing from a melting pot of cultures and comfort food that will rival your grandma's, Charleston is also home to more James Beard winners per capita than any other city in the US. From oysters to BBQ to a hearty brunch to cure your hangover, you'll find it hard to not be constantly stuffed.

CHARLESTON IS OVERWHELMINGLY CHARMING

CHARLESTON DOESN'T HAVE THE WILDEST NIGHTLIFE

If you're in this section of the guide, this might be exactly what you're looking for. You'll still be able to find plenty of spots to enjoy after the sun goes down, especially lounge-style bars, rooftops, and breweries, but compared to other destinations on this list, Charleston is a lot more tame.

KEEP IN MIND THE SEASONAL WEATHER

EAT LOCAL SEAFOOD AND SOUTHERN CLASSICS

I've already mentioned this, but dining out in Charleston is half the reason to go. Make sure to try some of the local flavors while you're in town. Being right on the coast means fresh caught seafood, and that means you should indulge on things like oysters on the half shell, shrimp and grits, Frogmore Stew (aka Lowcountry Boil), and the local She Crab Soup. Don’t forget about things like okra soup, fried green tomatoes, BBQ, and planter's punch.

GET OUT ON THE WATER

CHECK OUT THE BREWERIES AND ROOFTOP BARS

GETTING OUT IN NATURE IS A GREAT WAY FOR YOUR GROUP TO BOND

It will just be you and your bridal party and nature. You'll be able to focus on spending time with one another without all the usual distractions and excess of a bachelorette party. It's an awesome way for your group to bond before the big day.

GLAMPING IS AN AMAZING OPTION FOR CELEBRATING SOBER

DO YOUR HOMEWORK, AND PICK A PLACE THAT HAS THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF AMENITIES

Glamping is a broad term, and one person's idea of glam might be very different than another's. Some glamping tents you'll find, like those at Under Canvas, Collective Retreats, Big Cedar Lodge, or the Ranch at Rock Creek, are as nice or nicer than most hotel rooms, but others will lean more towards roughing it. That might be just what you and your group want (or you might be quickly adjusting your search for cabins), just know exactly what you're signing up for and what you're equipped to handle before you book.

THERE ARE LOTS OF OPTIONS FOR PLACES TO GO, BUT MOST WILL TAKE SOME TIME TO GET TO

GET NOSTALGIC WITH SUMMER CAMP STYLE GAMES AROUND A CAMPFIRE

A lot of bachelorette games are advertised as "fun" but can come off forced and cheesy. Something about sitting around a campfire playing games reminiscent of your childhood feels so much less so. Roast some smores and share some laughs while your bridal party bonds.

GET OUT AND EXPLORE THE NATURAL SCENERY AROUND YOU

TRY A MORE ADVENTUROUS ACTIVITY TO TAKE YOUR MIND OFF WEDDING PLANNING